Sex and The City Girls Whores???

Why does every guy I know refer to the Sex and the City girls as whores?

They're not whores, they are professional women who take charge of their sex lives.They don't let men dictate when and where they will have sex. I guess men can't handle a woman taking control of her own sex life, so the only way to make themselves feel better about the loss of power is to label them whores. Or their just jealous that girls can get more sex in a day than they can get in a year. Either way, it's wrong to label someone a whore just because they enjoy sex and embrace their sexuality.

I say bravo ladies, you're not whores you're heroes and Samantha's not a slut she's a playa....who likes to crush a lot:)

Men are like Pens

So, I broke up with a guy because he wasn't as passionate as I wanted him to be. I mean, he was an OK boyfriend, he bought me good presents, respected date night, was willing to meet my friends, introduced me to his, but it all seemed very robotic if that makes any sort of sense.

What led me to finally break up with him was, I went to Costa Rica for a week and when I came back he wasn't dying to see me or even talk to me. As a matter of fact,when I got back all I received was a "welcome back" text. Not only that, but instead of asking me to meet up with him over the weekend or early in the week he made other plans and told me he would just see me the next Friday. Now maybe I'm crazy, but is it wrong for me to expect a little more attention from my boyfriend????

Now, If we were just dating that would be no problem, but this is a guy who gave me "the title" and then didn't live up to it.

Now about men being like pens, my lovely friend Jules pointed out that maybe this poor shmuck was offering me a "blue" pen when I really wanted a "red", and sometimes you need to think whether its worth throwing a whole relationship away over one wrong hand off? I say yes you can't grade a paper with a blue pen you just can't!

Pervonella

Lately, It seems that every guy I go out with is tainted in some way shape or form.I dont exactly know whos tainting them. Maybe it's their mom or their ex-girlfriends or shows on MTV,but they are definitely coming out of the plant with some form of Pervonella poisoning.

Ok, so what do I mean by tainted...Im getting there . I promise. Alright so the last couple of guys I've dated have done this weird thing where they talk dirty to me literally within the first two weeks of getting to know eachother. Keep in mind, there has not been a first date and in both cases I hadnt even kissed the guy.

Now, I am not a prude in any sense of the word, in fact many of my friends say that Im actually the Samantha of the group, but having a guy I just met text me, if i'm a "naughty girl" and if i need a "spanking" is just not cool. The guy who took the cake though was the one who, and I quote, asked if he was going to "get some milk "after he took me to Benihanas (he was referring to my DD's). Remember Benihanas was supposed to be our FIRST DATE!

Sadly, I am not the only one who has encountered a man with a case of Pervonella. My friend, went out with a guy who refused to kiss her unless she could ensure him that he would get sex....after the first date! After my friend walked out of the car and slammed the door in his face he brilliantly text her, "Can I get some head at least?"....In the words of my super expressive sister..."AAAAAAAAGHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!"

A note to guys reading this. Introducing strong sexual innuendos at the early stages of dating is going to get you A. slapped, B. no return call and or txt, C. Door Slammed in Face and definitely NO BOOTY!!!